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When your Uber driver is asleep at the wheel…

written by sreedhara
Massive Traffic Jam in New Delhi

What do you do If your Uber driver falls asleep at the wheel? You feed him chocolate. I found success in doing that.

A young Uber driver picked me up from my sister’s house in New Delhi. I was going to the station to catch an evening train. We started driving through the dense Delhi traffic, the haze outside was the catastrophic air pollution Delhi sees every November. Despite my reluctance, I wore a N95 mask which makes me feel sensory challenged. I was feeling queasy because of the air and tried to distract myself by looking at the fleeting scenes outside. 

A good fifteen minutes later I noticed a strange thing. The car was slowing down for no apparent reason, sometimes almost stalling. Then the driver would speed up and zoom followed by random slowness. The slowing and speeding was arbitrary. This went on for a while, making me think there was something wrong with the car. Maybe, it would break down soon. I started worrying about reaching the station on time. 

After about half an hour of this strange rhythmic driving, I sat up and looked at the rearview mirror. By then, my nausea had subsided. To my horror, his eyes were closed. He was taking mini snoozes during the stall times. 

When I asked him to wake up or rather shouted at him, his eyes popped open. He smiled apologetically and said, since there was no conversation going on, he dozed off. DOZED OFF? Amazingly, he had done a pretty decent job of driving through traffic even while sleeping. 

I had already lost time and was late for the station.  Instead of blowing my lid and getting off, I decided it was my job to keep him awake.  First I rummaged through my purse and found a bar of Hershey’s chocolate and gave it to him. He gobbled that up. Then I found the ultra sweet mouth freshening mixes I had pocketed in the United Coffee House at Connaught place. He ate them all.

I started chatting with him relentlessly. I told him I was late for the train. He visibly emerged from his stupor and started driving like a champion. He squeezed through the narrowest of gaps, tweaking and skirting, showing great insight and dexterity. We were getting an edge in the maddening crowd. 

We got stumped just a kilometer away from the station. An impossible gridlock and nothing moved. We were truly stuck. A young porter knocked on the window and said I should get off and start walking through the stalled traffic if I wanted to make my train. The Uber driver chimed in.  I paid him and he refused a tip. Thank you Madam for the sweets, he said. 

We  zigzagged through the stalled traffic, the porter carrying my  overnighter on his head. We entered the station, tore through the length of the platform towards the train. He helped me get on, deposited my bag. I gave him a large tip. His smile lit up the blue and green upholstered compartment. He got off; the train started rolling. 

I thanked my travel guardian angel and wrote this post while the train sped through darkness made deeper by flickering village lights far away. 

Some Delhi Photos

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Job Satisfaction in a Fish Market

written by sreedhara
Fish Stalls in a Kolkata Market

Fishmonger is a word we learnt as children growing up in the folds of the Oxford Dictionary. A Person whose job is to sell fish in a store. But what about a person whose job is to only cut and clean the fish that have been sold? What do you call such a person?  And can he possibly like such a job?

I was in Lake Market on a late evening this autumn, an old style vegetable and fish market in south Kolkata. I entered the fish market with some hesitation, slivery and prostate fish glittered on the stands. A strong smell of blood and scales filled my nostrils. The incense sticks burning at the stalls only managed to add a funereal touch. I watched my steps on the concrete floor slippery with pale pink water. The vendors beckoned with gusto, perhaps sensing my inability to bargain. I ended ups buying some fish and then was told to proceed to the cleaning/cutting station. 

A largish man sat on a raised platform bent over a bonti, a vertical cutting blade attached to a wooden plank. People were lined up in front of him with their fish purchases. The man was going to clean and cut everyone’s fish for a very small fee. That was his job, cleaning and cutting fish all day.

  • A Fish Cutter
    Amay Mandal, The Fish Cleaner
  • Amay Mandal Cleaning Fish
    Amay cleaning fish
  • Fish
    Not the one I bought

When my turn came, I started talking to him. His name is Amay Mandal and he has been at this for 35 years. He came from his village to work at the market when he was 12 years old. He spoke of his mentor with reverence, someone who introduced him to this trade and taught him the skills. While talking to me he started cleaning the small fish I had bought, curling out entrails and hacking off fins with speed and precision.

I asked him if he liked doing this. He laughed out aloud and said – “Fish is my life. why not?” I told him he was going to be in my blog. His face beamed and he said, “Please write that I’ll do this as long as people want me to cut fish. I am helping them to eat a good meal.”

I walked away with my bag and thought of things. We are so focused on getting to places in life. Management ranks, top ten percentile, next big promotion. The list of factors impacting job satisfaction keeps growing.

What can you say about someone whose entire life has been about cleaning fish?

Mandal seems happy and content about what he does. A job done with joy and pride.

With that thought I quickened my pace. The air was hot and I had to get the fish to a frying pan sooner than later. 

More about Fish Markets of Kolkata

https://www.cnn.com/travel/article/kolkata-fish-market/index.html

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Durga Puja in Kolkata

written by sreedhara
A Durga Puja Pandal

Goddess Durga stands tall in the pandal, her beautiful face glows as the slayed demon lies at her feet. This is Durgapuja in Kolkata. A festival of five days where the Goddess is worshipped in unbelievably magnificent pandals handcrafted by artisans. Her golden body is made in clay.

The entire city is an ocean of pedestrians, traveling from one pandal to the other.  This year I felt most alive while jostling in the maddening crowds, in dizzying pandals, smelling rolls and fish fry, navigating bamboo barricades, dodging millions of selfie arms, eating melting chocobars, watching the pujari leaping leaping leaping, during evening arti, and listening to the drums rolling. I felt high, on a straight path to my childhood or maybe, heaven.

The clay model being sculpted

While untangling my limbs from the larger human mass of blood, flesh and perspiration, I made some delightful observations.

  • In the crushing crowds, we are all equal.
  • Celebrating Shakti in a female form is a pretty cool thing, especially in a country still plagued by oppression of women.
  • At the end of the festival, the magnificent goddess is immersed in water. Her body unravels and becomes part of the river bed. The pandals are dismantled. A true reflection of life. Nothing is permanent. Renew and rebuild is all we can do.

Learn More about Durga Puja:

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Kali – A Himalayan Dog

written by sreedhara
Kali the dog soaking up the sun

Kali lives at 7000 feet above the sea level in a village crowned by the silvery white ranges of the Himalayas.  

I met her recently when I stayed in a beautiful cottage in Gagar, Uttarakhand. The White Peaks, https://thewhitepeaks.com, is a boutique homestay owned and run by an energetic couple from Delhi – Aparupa and Abhijit. Kali is the resident dog of this charming place. She accompanies guests on hikes through groves of huddled Oaks. She closes in with them to soak up the warmth from the fireplace. She listens to conversations with deep comprehension in her amber eyes.

It wasn’t always this cushy for her. She was a stray wandering the ridged slopes of the hills covered in tall Silver Oaks. On a clear day you could see her clambering through the terraced pathways of the valley in search of food.  A black dot, within the brown meadows and the curtain of trees.

It was Aparupa who spotted her six years ago. Anytime she arrived at the cottage, Kali came running up the snaking road to greet her and spend time with her.  They became friends and Kali became the seasonal visitor and a guest.

After a few years, Kali gave birth to a litter of pups next to a shanty under a big Deodar tree. All her pups except one were adopted with Aparupa’s help. On a stormy night when the wind tore through the sky and ice clasped the hills, Aparupa brought Kali and her young one to the cottage. She gave them a home – somewhat.

At a pink sunset, Kali and her pup went down to the stream, close to the forest. The last rays of the sun were fading over the treetops.  A leopard came out of the dark  shadows and took the pup. Kali managed to escape.

Kali returned to the cottage. She didn’t eat for ten days.  When she started to eat again, she lived on in the cottage.  She became a much loved resident.

Kali the Himalayan dog
Kali

She is now a White Peaks team member. She goes down to greet the guests when they arrive. She sits patiently while they eat – not begging, but simply making herself noticeable.

She gets love and gives love.

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Humans not Cards

written by sreedhara
The Kingdom of Cards by St.Kabir Public School.

Rabindranath Tagore wrote an allegorical dance drama in 1933. In his very own style, he rendered in a beatific and non-threatening format, a tale about something dark and sinister. The perils of mind-control and repression. A story about a fictional land where free will and freedom of expression are prohibited. A state where the only rulebook prevails, over hearts and minds.

In his play, an adventure seeking, free-spirited prince sets sail to find a new world. He and his companion are shipwrecked on a strange land where every inhabitant is a card – Hearts, Spades, Diamonds or Clubs. The cards do everything by their codebook, an iron-fisted regimen for moving, playing, and even thinking. Doing what one desires is an anathema. It is a state of complete submission to prescribed mandates. No disorder and no dissent. Obedience is the mantra.

In such a land, the prince stirs up trouble by asking discomforting questions. Why cannot one sing? How about following one’s heart’s desire? What’s not to love about wandering aimlessly and laughing for no good reason? Must I submit?

In Rabindranath’s play, the prince catalyzes an upheaval, a revolution of some sort in the kingdom of cards. He invokes desire in the cards, to taste the joy of emotions, of freedom. The cards revert to being real humans, thinking, feeling, and loving. Free will wins over mindless obedience and the mechanistic system collapses.

It was a pleasure watching the students of a local school in Chandigarh, St Kabir Public school, perform an improvised version of the original drama on a balmy autumn evening. The production was lavish, the music and dance contemporary and electrifying. The children performed with an abundance that was pure and endearing.

A performance by school children

The Kingdom of Cards by Students of St Kabir Public School in Chandigarh

As a child, I loved the magical aura of the play. Watching it now, made me marvel at the relevance of Tagore’s work, even after 86 years. Free will and freedom of expression form the core of creativity, progress and intellectual evolution. It is the engine that moves us forward; sets free the prospect of happiness for the greatest number of people.

My friend who accompanied me asked.

“So what would Tagore think about this adaptation?”

“Oh, he would very much approve. He was all for thinking outside the box, stepping out of prescriptions. He was nothing if not a lifelong advocate of free expression,” I replied.

I know Tagore would agree. If you take away free thinking and articulation, you take away the essence of humanity. We are beautiful, because we think, we create, we disagree, we change our minds, we protest, we support and we hold our own against all odds.

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Diwali Lamps light up my heart

written by sreedhara
Diwali Diyas

I stood in a local market in a city in northern India. It was three days before Diwali – the biggest festival here. A festival that celebrates the victory of light over shadows, good over evil. Lamps are lit around the house to ward off dark forces. Family and friends are remembered and cherished – for love is always stronger than hate.

Makeshift pavement stalls displayed colorful garlands and festoons, plastic templates of auspicious symbols. Young girls huddled over colored glass bangles and elaborate earrings with glittering beads. I smelled spicy fritters floating in hissing oil in enormous woks.

I inhaled deeply, taking in the smell and the colors. A woman squatted on the street close to me. She was selling clay lamps or diyas as those are called in India. You fill the hollow with oil, dip a cotton wick within and place them around the house. A dance of flickering flames rises along the perimeter of every home on Diwali night.

Clay is an elemental part of the Indian civilization. Clay pottery was pervasive in the old lifestyle. Tea was served in disposable clay cups, earth-friendly and quaint. Water was stored in clay matkas, earthen jugs that kept the water cool.

The Diwali diyas are often sold by women. They come from the villages during the festival with their handicrafts and set up shop in street corners. The woman next to me had her diyas on a white cloth spread over the dusty road. She wore a bright pink salwar-suit and a glittering nose-stud. She smiled at me broadly.

I bought a dozen lamps, painted red with a golden border. She told me it takes a long time to make those. The price was 40 Rupees for a dozen, around 50 cents. I gave her more than that. She looked surprised.

“Let there be light in your home,” I said.

She looked at my face and smiled.

“What do you want this Diwali?” she asked.

“I wish there would be joy in my heart,” I said.

“So be it,” she said.

She posed for me, proudly holding the diyas wrapped in newspaper. I walked away with her blessing. No gift could have made me happier this Diwali.

This Diwali I choose to be grateful. I was fortunate to receive diyas from a woman who painted them with love, sold them in the sun on the crowded street, and touched my life.

 

 

 

 

 

Diwali Diyas

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A Goddess and Murder of Girls

written by sreedhara
The idol of Durga in an Austin festival

My religious schooling was ambivalent. My mother didn’t care much about temples and ceremonies. She prayed at home to her Gods and Goddesses – lined up on an old credenza, encircled by yellow blooms of marigold.

The only prayer she chanted was a Sanskrit stuti(praise) to Goddess Durga.

Ya Devi sarva bhuteshu Shakti-rupena samsthitha ; Namastasye Namastasye Namastasye Namo Namaha..

O Goddess, you, who exists in every sphere as Shakti, I bow to you.

Durga is a fascinating Goddess. Imbued with indescribable beauty and strength, she was catalyzed by the collective divine powers of the big league Gods in order to defeat a form-changing, buffalo- headed demon called Mahishasura. According to mythology, Mahishasura terrorized the world, defeated the Gods and booted them out of their heavenly kingdom. A boon from the Gods had rendered him immortal and thus invincible. Interestingly, the boon had a disclaimer – although he couldn’t be defeated by any man or God, it afforded him no protection from a woman. That was his Achilles’ heel, a loophole left open. Beleaguered Gods shamed by humiliating defeat seized upon it – they united their powers and devised Goddess Durga and endowed her with beauty, strength and munitions. She rode on a golden lion, sought out the demon and after a terrific battle, vanquished him and halted a cosmic crisis.

12 million girls were aborted in India since 1981 – reported a 2011 study in the British Medical Journal. The number of girls (0 to 6 years) dropped to 914 girls per 1000 boys for the first time in 64 years in 2011. Research suggested there were about 400,000 sex-selective abortions per year.

Indian religious landscape is full of magnificent Goddesses. In a country where the female form of divinity is worshipped with such ardor, why do we kill off so many girls-to-be?

In all my years of working in Chandigarh, a joint capital for Punjab and Haryana, I read horrific stories in the dailies about discarded female fetuses found in garbage dumps and water wells. A journalist friend told me about a well somewhere in Haryana – crammed full with aborted female fetuses. Every year, countless pregnant women shiver on an ultra-sound table, sticky gel on their abdomens, whimpering in their heads, and dreading the image that would float up in black and white.

According to World Bank projections, the sex ratio will fall further to 904 in 2021 and 898 in 2031 as compared to 961 in 1971.

The phenomenon of girl-abortion is appalling, but a numbing irony is that most of the folks seeking out these clandestine clinics and medical practitioners are actually everyday regular people. They are loving parents, generous friends, empathetic co-workers and concerned neighbors. They go to temples and stand with folded hands, supplicating to a Goddess to protect them from evil.

Hardly considered a real crime, this practice is a hash of socio-cultural and economic markers. A son is sought for many reasons. A son will earn money, carry out the family name, provide at old age, retain inheritances, whereas a daughter will require dowry for marriage and leave. Dowry is still highly prevalent in parts of India. Father of a bride will beg and borrow to meet unrealistic demands.

“They want my father to install air conditioners in the entire house! Also, give the groom a car. How can my father afford all this?” A young woman working as a HR manager told me with tears in her eyes.

The belief that female infanticide is largely confined to the poor, the uneducated and the rural population is a myth. Technology and clinical infrastructure mostly found in cities play a large part in this, even though banned by legislation. The educated, economically aspirant couples largely subscribe to this practice because they want to curate the gender of the few kids they will have. Climbing literacy rate has not made a difference.

I am not a sociologist or a cultural anthropologist. But, I do understand how a horrific thing can be part of a culture when reinforced and abetted by strong socio-economic propellants. And practice begets perfect desensitization.

How do you change attitudes? Perhaps, by changing what is at stake? If women were viewed as economic contributors, their social value will increase. Despite sharp rise in women’s education, they are largely absent from the workforce, especially from the middle and upper level jobs. Social mores, marriage, child-rearing – all take a toll on a woman’s career. Even with an elevated desire to educate and invest in the girl-child, India ranks 130th on the gender inequality index in 2018.

Women Flower Vendors in a Kolkata Market

Flower Vendors in a Kolkata Market

According to McKinsey Global Institute’s 2018 report, The power of parity: Advancing women’s equality in Asia-Pacific, only 25% of India’s labor force is female, contributing only 18 percent of the GDP.  The report recommends enablers. Women need easy access to technology to explore and utilize financial resources. They need help to minimize time spent on unpaid work like child-care and cooking.

This year I went to the Durgapuja, the annual worship of Durga, in Austin. The lamps threw a golden glow on the beatific face of the life-size Goddess. Incense smoke rose in cumulus mounds, devotees chanted mantra and Mahishasura sat at her feet – defeated.

The monster of sex-selection remains undefeated.

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The First Death

written by sreedhara
A street dog

The first death was the hardest 

The driver almost hit a tree when Robert yelled. He had seen a street dog. Robert was from the Austin office visiting us. A staunch dog-lover he couldn’t believe how many street dogs were running around in the city. He wanted to get off the car and hug them.

“You cannot do that, No, absolutely not. These dogs bite and you will get rabies.”

“Really?” He pleaded. “But, Sree they look harmless.”

“Well, they are mostly hungry and upset at the world and they don’t care about your love for their species. You are not hugging those dogs.” I said with finality.

Then we drove into a neighborhood and he shouted again. We looked up. Perched on the water pipes of the building was the cutest pair – a baby monkey clutching onto the breast of a mother monkey.

Street dogs napping

Time for a nap for these street dogs

Few months after arriving in Chandigarh, I decided to rent the second floor of a house in a nice neighborhood.  The rent was modest, a clean and cozy space with two long terraces front and back. A lovely view of tall Eucalyptus and dense mango trees. The lake was close. When I stepped into the large living room, It felt like a sky room, up in the air, ringed by pale yellow sunlight. Out front was a green manicured lawn with flower borders. In winter, large Dahlias, chrysanthemums and hydrangeas bloomed in flowering beds along the perimeter. The back terrace was finished with rough concrete. It turned magical at night. Moonshine fell on the uneven contour, a random chessboard of light and shadows. Silent black triangular shapes glided over my head when I stood at the edge– bats. This would be my home for the next four years.

Within a fortnight of our settling into our new home, my daughter took to feeding the street dogs, big dogs with calm eyes. I overcame my fear of rabies. One particularly took her fancy. A giant of a dog, with eyes like the morning sky. We bought a little steel platter and fed him every day. He took to hanging around the house and the neighborhood. We didn’t know then – love for street dogs can be heart-breaking. Street dogs are not welcome in nice neighborhoods with their manicured gardens.

He came into our lawn one morning and lay there, listless, eyes vacant, dribble streaming from his mouth. Meghna rushed in to tell me. We ran out.

She said, “Mom, I think he is sick. Maybe, he needs some warm milk and maybe Tylenol.”

“Maybe, it’s the heat, sweetie, maybe, he has had what they call here a heat stroke.” I said.

As the day progressed, I knew we were wrong. His eyes closed slowly and his breath became faint. I sat close fanning his head with a paper fan till I heard a long resigned sigh and then nothing.

He had been poisoned. A big dog in the garden was an intrusion.

Meghna had gone back inside the house and was watching TV when I came in.

“What happened Mom?”  She knew but didn’t want the truth and I did not have the courage to tell her.

“Oh I think he fainted, I am going to have him sent to the hospital, sweetie.”

She didn’t ask me about the dog again.

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India is People

written by sreedhara
People on the streets

India is people and packed places. India overwhelms you as soon as you step out of the air-conditioned airport. India is smells and sounds. A canvas of rushing humanity – bodies everywhere – rushing, hurtling. A dramatic collapse of distance between people and things.

We took the popular express train that runs between Delhi and Chandigarh.

We walked into the Delhi train station and stopped breathing – almost. It was like a very hot bird cage. People fluttered around us, bodies and baggage – hurtling, shoving, frantically zig-zagging surrounded us.  People sat everywhere on the dusty concrete floor. We squeezed our way through the crowd, climbed into the train and felt the welcome flow of air-conditioning.

A train station platform

A train station platform

The train started on time with a jerk.  Meghna stood up at her window seat and saw the new world moving outside past the coolies and the plastering crowds, steel structures and crumbling light posts. The rail attendants handed out little plastic trays with tea and cookies. The train swayed and gathered speed.

A couple of dark tunnels and we were riding through long rows of beehive like dwellings in what seemed like concrete squares with irregular openings. Cement boxes stuck together in random order, doors, windows, balconies in a jumble. Men, women and children rose up within like pop-up figures as the train sped by. Iron water pipes jutted out from unfinished walls spouting viscous yellowish liquid. Vegetation pushed through broken bricks, branches outstretched like reedy hands.

All around lay uninterrupted hillocks of landfill, plastic bags oozing yellow food, vegetable peels, decaying rags. Cows sat on the slippery slopes. Pigs sniffed and trekked on the piles. Children stood within flying kites. Bent leafless trees looked like victims of physical torture. We crossed small bridges with chunks of concrete missing on the sides.  A temple stood in the driveway of what seemed like an abandoned power plant. A green paper garland fluttered, wrapped around the Trishul emerging from the conical temple top. Clothes dried on lines that hung over burnt garbage, the earth brown, black and sooty. Crows dipped into small pools of black water with iridescent pink pearl glow of diesel streaks.

The landscape changed dramatically as soon as we entered the countryside of Haryana, the state adjoining Punjab. The landscape swiftly turned green. The land outside became checkered with harvested fields, squares of deep green and muddy brown with thin water-filled moats marking perimeters. Delicate rice paddy saplings stood in water. Combed brown earth in perfect squares  fenced by scraggy trees and white skinned Eucalyptus. Every village looked the same. Miles of harvested fields awash in sunlight. Few isolated brick houses, level crossings where the speeding train almost ruffled the hair of the scooterists at the barricade.

The train PA system announced the stations and a pithy history. We crossed Kurukhestra, the eponymous battle fields from the Mahabharata. A 3000 year old war and still has contemporaries. Now a city in Haryana.

Train station vendor

Train station vendor

The last stop before Chandigarh was Ambala, a small city in Haryana. A bustling station. Large open stalls sold magazines and paperbacks. Da Vinci Code reprinted in recycled mottled paper.  People sat on the floor. Some sat on stuffed burlap sacks.  A vendor sold potato patties on an open cart with a kerosine stove.  A flat frying pan showcased shallow fried patties interposed with disc cut bright red tomatoes and long green chillies in concentric circles. A new bride in golden sandals and heavily embroidered Zari salwar suit hurried after a commanding looking mother-in-law. A couple of men in tattered clothes and turbans that seemed like parts of a bed sheet sat on a parallel rail track. They were playing cards.

The express deposited us in Chandigarh station at around 10.30 in the morning.  The June heat was white, made the clean platform sizzle.  Tall and lanky Eucalyptus trees with bleached bodies and ashened leaves stood in a row outside. Overhead an iron shade buzzed with hundreds of restless common mynahs –their skinny brown-black bodies flapping.

We had family waiting for us. We hugged and got out of the station. The parking lot was brimming with small cars. Drivers, coolies, passengers, people everywhere. We loaded the trunk with our oversized suitcases. Placed handbags on our laps, started sweating profusely and drove out, our ears almost ringing with the incessant honking all around. It was like combustion – heat, light, sound and physical bodies. We got instantly sucked into – India.

India is People

It started right then. Understanding realities in a new way. India is people. They ring your door bell at any time, ask your age, make you photocopies, drive you places, change your flat tire, cry unabashedly, chase away your house lizards and in the end, fill your heart with an absurd fondness for them. I survived the adventure because of them. You can love them, you can hate them, but you cannot do without them.

 

 

 

India is People was last modified: November 8th, 2017 by sreedhara
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Whose Baby is this?

written by sreedhara
Three is not a crowd

It was a baby. No more than a month old. Ten small fingers and toes. Lying face up to the morning sun. On a sheet of newspaper. In the desolate back alley of the neighborhood, a narrow cobbled lane meant for garbage pick up. I couldn’t believe my eyes. I looked left and right. There was no one in sight. I walked to the end and peeked out. Saw no adult lurking around. How could a baby just be lying on the street? I went back and stood over the baby, the little chest was rhythmically moving, eyelashes flattened. I stood paralyzed. Who shall I call? The police? Shall I pick up the baby and take him to a safe place? I stood with my numb fingers clasping the cell phone.

A man walked into the alley. He wore a t-shirt that said Alabama and a pair of filthy pajamas. His eyes were blood-shot, hands were calloused. His hair unwashed and clumped. He quickened his pace when he saw me, hurriedly picked up the baby.

“Is this your kid?”  I asked.

“Yes.”

“Why did you leave the kid on the road, all alone?”

“I had gone to pee.”

“What do you mean? You left the baby inside this alley, alone?” I had raised my voice.

“My wife works as a maid, she is working in one these houses. She left the baby with me.”

“What do you do?”

“I am a ricksha-walla.” The cycle rickshaws were still a large part of the city. Transporting people in a carriage pulled by a cycle.

“How can you leave the baby, just like that?”

“What can I do, Mam? ”

He walked away.

I stood there, stunned.

I was in the largest democracy of the world.

Whose Baby is this? was last modified: October 31st, 2017 by sreedhara
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